ScottyB 2,086 Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 Since this is a gaming site originally made for couples, I'm disappointed at the lack of topics on love and relationships! To get the ball rolling, I ask you the not so simple question; How did you know that your significant other was the one? Was it love at first site? Did you feel a strong connection with them unlike anyone else before? Did you ever have any doubts? Feel free to say anything else you'd like on the matter as well Obviously due to the personal nature of this question, feel free to write as little or much as you want. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chewy 612 Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 She told me. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grjkie 727 Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 (edited) Well, I'll kick things up... I am divorced at an early age, I blame myself because I searched for love... Whenever I tried I ended up getting fucked. Now I have a happy family and I think it was because I wasn't searching for anything. I was handed love edit:(not an advice, please don't do the same as I if you don't believe...) Edited April 22, 2016 by grjkie 1 Quote www.ishare4free.com Please don't be offended, it's a small piece of my mind that I chose to expose... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squirrel 5,180 Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 Think I'm going to avoid this conversation. Who said we were meant to be with only one person 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScottyB 2,086 Posted April 22, 2016 Author Share Posted April 22, 2016 58 minutes ago, Chewy said: She told me. Were you pointed out at a line up or something? That's the guy! He's the one! haha I hope you said it back to her 59 minutes ago, grjkie said: Well, I'll kick things up... I am divorced at an early age, I blame myself because I searched for love... Whenever I tried I ended up getting fucked. Now I have a happy family and I think it was because I wasn't searching for anything. I was handed love edit:(not an advice, please don't do the same as I if you don't believe...) I know the feeling. I wouldn't blame yourself though, deep down you knew that it wasn't right. I've semi recently broken up with my partner of 8 years, a lot of which was spent questioning "is there someone else better out there for me?". If you think you're settling at all, then those feelings will never go away and you have to ask yourself if you can live with that, and I couldn't. I'm happy that you have found someone special. They always say that love happens when you least expect it! 27 minutes ago, Squirrel said: Think I'm going to avoid this conversation. Who said we were meant to be with only one person Haha, maybe you'll learn a thing or 2 But I agree, some people don't want to settle down and that's fine. Maybe one day someone will come along and fulfil all your needs, who knows! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ninja 719 Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 Hell i'm still young! Not really looking for a relationship and we'll see what comes along the way over the years 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fido_le_muet 5,197 Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 7 years in a relationship so it's looking like she's the one so far I wouldn't call our relationship a splendid love story like in the fairytales or romantic movies. We just love each other because it feels good to be with one another. Just that. But I think love isn't a straight line. Sometimes you can be madly in love with your partner and sometimes, feel it a bit less and wanting a bit more space. I'm perfectly happy with how things are going now so I guess that's what love is in my case. About our meet 7 years ago, it wasn't love at first sight ^^ I thought :"this girl is pretty, she seems nice, I'd like to know her more". That's what happened and after a few weeks of getting to know each other, we started a relationship together and I guess we became in love with each other. It's a process that grows overtime in my experience. I'm sure it is specific to everyone though. Love at first sight can definitely happen and I guess that's a very strong feeling. I'm sure you know it when it happens to know. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lann 10,838 Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 I don't think there is a one right person. You primarily make a decision to get together based on alot of things. Then your personalities and life will affect if you stick together or not. I think there is always another person that could be a better match, but it doesn't matter, we all deal with what we have. Most important appreciate what you have or make a change. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScottyB 2,086 Posted April 22, 2016 Author Share Posted April 22, 2016 11 hours ago, Fido_le_muet said: It's a process that grows overtime in my experience. I'm sure it is specific to everyone though. Love at first sight can definitely happen and I guess that's a very strong feeling. I'm sure you know it when it happens to know. I definitely agree with this and being/falling in love will be a very individual experience. To think that you don't need to work on the relationship and help make it grow will only end in heartbreak and there will always be ups and downs. 11 hours ago, Lann said: I don't think there is a one right person. You primarily make a decision to get together based on alot of things. Then your personalities and life will affect if you stick together or not. I think there is always another person that could be a better match, but it doesn't matter, we all deal with what we have. Most important appreciate what you have or make a change. I've always been under the assumption that there will be many right people for you, most likely 1000's. The odds that there's only one and you finding them is almost impossible! From my experience so far, I believe it's extremely important to date a variety of people so that you know what you desire in a partner so when they come along, you'll know and be in a good position to commit without hesitation and be able to fully appreciate what you've got. I tried to make things work in my past relationship but I could never fully commit and couldn't quieten the voice saying that it's not right. It took a long time for me to listen but I had to make the change and feel much better for doing so. Lesson here, always listen to your gut feeling! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustHatched 12,103 Posted April 22, 2016 Share Posted April 22, 2016 I think love at first sight happens more for younger people, after you get older and burned a few times you tend to look at things a better. Rose is my 3rd wife, when we met I knew I liked her alot but circumstances at the time left us with the thought nothing would become of us, fast forward 10 years and the circumstances changed and we gave it a go and are still going and considering we are together 24/7 we seem to be ok. My 1st wife passed due to a brain tumor and my 2nd wife I would like to strangle 4 Quote The funniest thing about this particular signature is that by the time you realise it doesn't say anything it's to late to stop reading it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TECHFL227 422 Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 Sinister and I were together only a short time before we got married. We were married for only 4.5 years when we got divorced. After almost a year of going our separate ways and venturing out we have it another try. We have been back together almost 9 years. We did not get remarried and do not know that we ever will. Where we are at now is what works for us. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zztop911 1,609 Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 Baaaa Humbug! Wives are like hookers in only one aspect. You PAY both to LEAVE. 2 Quote I only grow in living soil! Because Fat Buds Matter! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ssracingn2 935 Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 (edited) Well I was a love at first sight kinda person. I met my wife in high school and on the third date I told her that we would be married. After a year and a half of dating we got married and have been for almost 16 years. Edited April 23, 2016 by ssracingn2 5 Quote http://www.gta-stats.com/player/image/medium_1.units_0.platI_1.plat_2/custom.stats_races_ratio.stats_dm_ratio.crime_kills_players_headshots.crime_kdr_players.other_vehicles_speed/ssracingn2.jpg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LN-MLB 2,583 Posted April 23, 2016 Share Posted April 23, 2016 Never been married, never have even come close. I think my longest on-going relationship clocked in somewhere around the four month mark. I've been burned a lot and am now a bit cynical, so I doubt it will happen for a long time or perhaps even ever at all. No offense to anyone, but I live in the wrong country. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zztop911 1,609 Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 On 4/23/2016 at 9:37 AM, LN-MLB said: Never been married, never have even come close. I think my longest on-going relationship clocked in somewhere around the four month mark. I've been burned a lot and am now a bit cynical, so I doubt it will happen for a long time or perhaps even ever at all. No offense to anyone, but I live in the wrong country. Yeah, I do too! LOL! I almost came back from Russia with a bride after staying over there for a couple years. I was surrounded by waaaaaay too many beautiful, sweet, very down to earth and seemingly honest women there. It was VERY tempting. I just couldn't bring myself to do the "dirty deed" again. I still talk with one of them on occasion. Her sexy voice still sends chills down my back! 3 Quote I only grow in living soil! Because Fat Buds Matter! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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